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Teaching People to Love Us in Ways We Enjoy

in ways that bring pleasure to you both. This trainer tip is an excerpt from Mary Mackenzie's book Peaceful Living, available from PuddleDancer Press. Keywords: expression feelings honesty needs requests love relationships honest expression vulnerability Mary Mackenzie
Speaking Up Is an Expression of Love

love for yourself and the other person. This trainer tip is an excerpt from Mary Mackenzie's book Peaceful Living, available from PuddleDancer Press. Keywords: expression feelings honesty needs requests love relationships honest expression vulnerability Mary Mackenzie
The Four D's of Disconnection

care about yourself! I feel sad and frustrated because I have a need to be seen as a caring person. Are you feeling frustrated because you value cooperation? Keywords: demands exercises/practices requests blame jackal talk choice diagnosis deserve disconnection Introduction to NVC learning tool Jim Manske Jori Manske ©2008 peaceworks jim and jori manske radicalcompassion.com
Transforming Anger

Join John Kinyon to learn this essential life skill through the Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral. {attachment:all} Keywords: demands empathy feelings jackal show needs presence requests self empathy compassion conflict resolution relationships jackal talk authenticity vulnerability enemy images intensity triggers John Kinyon
Neither Rioting Nor Colluding

authentically as powerful voices for change, and practice these needed conversations… Keywords: consciousness core beliefs empathy expression feelings honesty mourning observation presence requests self empathy anger blame compassion connection dialogue inspiration judgment listening social change violence race Roxy Manning Roxanne Manning
The Magic and Mechanics of Lasting Love

effectively, while remaining open, present and responsive… Identify what uniquely feeds your couple relationship – and keeps your love alive… Keywords: core beliefs feelings needs presence requests connection families relationships Mukti Jarvis Linda Rysenbry
Tips for the Road Series Tip 1

to empowerment, autonomy and self-trust. If someone does not want empathy or advice from me, I ask them to tell me what kind of support they would like. Keywords: self restraint empathy requests strategies contribution responsibility self responsibility advice Eric Bowers
Tips for the Road Series Tip 3

For example, you might say, “I really need more rest and peace right now, so I’m not willing to host the family reunion. However, I am willing to find a caterer.” Keywords: self restraint empathy requests strategies contribution responsibility self responsibility advice Eric Bowers
Tips for the Road Series Tip 5

can accept and embrace your feelings and needs, your nervous system can relax, and you will have a more integrated brain from which to find different solutions. Keywords: self restraint empathy requests strategies contribution responsibility self responsibility advice Eric Bowers
Tips for the Road Series Tip 7

Dominic Barter, at restorativecircles.org. The four questions listed above are adapted from questions that Dominic uses in his Restorative Circle work (Barter). Keywords: self restraint empathy requests strategies contribution responsibility self responsibility advice Eric Bowers