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How to Energize Compassion in Yourself and Family Members this Holiday Season

you will experience four simple tools for savoring your own precious needs, allowing you to experience greater compassion and harmony this holiday. Keywords: empathy presence strategies anger blame compassion judgment listening conflict resolution families Family Conflict family communication peace politics holidays Mary Mackenzie
Building Understanding

Using NVC to foster understanding and connection across divided groups. Keywords: presence blame judgment personal growth relationships politics Liv Larsson
Calling Out / Calling In

of the dominant culture, over caring for people who bear the invisible brunt of such norms. Read this article Keywords: attention allyship honest expression advocacy Calling out Calling in impact blame NVC community privilege equity Hard to hear Jackal in Jackal out Roxy Manning Roxanne Manning
Self Responsibility

in relating our stories to our needs. Read on for more on this, and the various pifalls within thinking about self responsibility. Read this article Keywords: self responsibility NVC pitfalls blame presence mindfulness Bob Wentworth
Setting Boundaries with Reactivity

know that you aren’t going to participate in that kinds of dynamics. This means knowing what helps with handling difficulties and asking for that. Read this article Keywords: reactivity boundaries blame guilt trip stonewalling request LaShelle Lowe-Chardé Elia Lowe Charde
Share Impact for Liberation (Part 2)

that includes our systemic context. Read on for "how to" when we are in a position of less power. Read this article Keywords: Systemic Accusation Racism Liberation Feedback Power Privilege Impact Blame To be seen Anger Being heard Defensive Conflict Honest expression Communication Conflict To be heard To be seen Calling In Calling Out Miki Kashtan
Independence vs. Interdependence in NVC

-- and this is where conflict emerges. Read on for more. Read this article Keywords: independence interdependence enmeshment responsibility codependence impact conflict stimulus cause denial blame NVC myth Bob Wentworth
Express Anger with Responsibility

Anger can bring in judgment and blame. Instead, use anger and frustration to identify what’s important and express what matters to you in a collaborative way. Read this article Keywords: anger frustration self responsibility LaShelle Lowe-Chardé Elia Lowe Charde
Understanding How Shame Hinders Clear Requests

others. Instead, be with people who allow space for vulnerability. Find ways to celebrate, negotiate, be mindful, accepting, and creative. Read this article Keywords: shame request defensive blame shadow LaShelle Lowe-Charde Elia Lowe Charde
Moving Towards Life-Serving Responsibility in NVC

without the former. For greater compassion we can be more rigorous in how we talk about “responsibility", impacts and interdependence. Read this article Keywords: defensive compassion independence blame impact care freedom teaching NVC interdependence obnoxious stage NVC community liberation responsiblity Bob Wentworth