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Attachment and Connection as a Foundation for Parenting--and Life!

Ingrid shares about the three primary keys of parenting & NVC, two child rearing models, developmental needs for children and how to foster secure attachment. {attachment:all} Keywords: parenting trust self compassion listening judgment healing connection compassion self empathy presence Attachment Theory attachment attachment parenting children childhood childrearing child Ingrid Bauer
What About Psychopaths?

Sometimes we want to avoid placing our love and trust in someone, to protect our hearts and our life energies. And so there are deeper questions that we can use to check whether we're in relationship with someone who doesn't have capacity to be in relationship with us (eg. “Do I have a sense of mattering in this relationship?”). Read on for more questions we use to assess our empathy and...
How To Interrupt Tragic Cycles That Prevent Collaboration

identifying at least three different strategies to meet each need; and imagining the positive outcome. Read on for more. Read this article Keywords: conflict reactivity collaboration fun warmth trust LaShelle Lowe-Chardé Elia Lowe Charde
How to Make Requests with Confidence

you can connect fully to a time when your need was met. Notice how your request feels and sounds different from this place of aliveness. Excitement about meeting a need implies confidence and trust about moving forward together. Offer an invitation to find strategies that work for both of you. Read this practice exercise Keywords: request demand collaboration LaShelle Lowe-Charde Elia Lowe Charde
Flow, Decision-Making, And Conflict

Trust, flow, information sharing, and learning is reduced in conflict. Conflict can indicate incapacity in at least one of five systems that every group, community, or organization needs to function. Attending to conflict at systems-level helps reduce over relying on momentary connection that isn’t anchored in decisions about what comes next. When there's enough agreed upon systems within...
NVC Life Hacks 13

When people get hurt or harmed, how can we restore trust, safety and connection in the community? A restorative approach which focuses on who got hurt and how can we restore it? Rather than whose fault is it and how can we punish them? Keywords: community restorative justice punishment punitive Trainer Tip Shantigarbha Warren
Compassionate Connection

for them, and to experience the power of contributing to meeting others' needs, and the power to move towards mutually satisfying outcomes. Read this article Keywords: parenting attachment theory trust Inbal Kashtan
Little Hints For Contributing To A Secure Bond With Your Partner

give them your full attention and affection in a spacious greeting; conveying care, consideration, and that they matter and are seen. Read this practice exercise Keywords: secure attachment trust conflict emotional safety relationships LaShelle Lowe-Charde Elia Lowe Charde
Find Space Between Needs And Strategies

Confidence, flexibility, creativity and equanimity may become more possible when you would like someone to meet a particular need, can trust that you can meet that need with someone else, and can accept a “no” to your requests. You can allow grief or disappointment to arise, and naturally turn towards a relationship in which those needs can be met. In some cases this may lead to the dissolution...
You Ask too Many Questions!!

Reveal what’s in your heart before asking a question to help build trust, especially if you're an authority figure. Otherwise, your question may sound like a demand, blame, trap, intrusion or accusation, and it may elicit a defensive response. If you get a "question" like that, give them empathy. Read on for reflection questions to see how our revealing and our withholding impacts our...