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  • Parenting and Anger

    Keywords: empathy presence role play strategies anger blame compassion judgment listening conflict resolution families mediation parenting family conflict family communication peace family John Kinyon Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

  • Mediating Conflict Conversations with Observation, Feeling, Need, and Request

    vulnerability authenticity mediation conflict resolution listening self empathy requests presence observation needs jackal show feelings empathy OFNR conflict conversation relationships John Kinyon

  • Healing and Reconciliation

    conflict letting go pain emotional pain old pain acceptance enemy images making agreements amends making amends reconciliation exercises/practices mediation first session free Ike Lasater John Kinyon Mediate Your Life

  • Connecting When Worldviews Conflict

    the ways in which people’s worldviews can be different and why this often creates conflict. John and Matt use a number of tools to support your learning, including mediation maps developed by John Kinyon and Ike Lasater and tools from Spiral Dynamics and the emerging field of integral studies. The following topics are covered: Self empathy – understanding and accepting your view of the world...

  • The Tao of Empathy

    people understanding in natural language before moving into translating and connecting to need language. {attachment:all} Keywords: empathy needs presence naturalizing NVC universal human needs John Kinyon

  • Mediating Conflict for Yourself and Others

    skills to conflict coaching and working with groups Keywords: demands needs presence argument compassion connection healing judgment mediation workplace family Conflict disagreement is progress John Kinyon

  • NVC as Spiritual Practice

    spiritual practice radical compassion radical empathy acceptance compassionate giving compassionate receiving open heart open hearted giving open hearted nonattachment synchronicity John Kinyon Newt Bailey

  • Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict

    mediating their conflict. Keywords: feelings needs observation requests self empathy compassion judgment self compassion families mediation parenting family Conflict family communication peace John Kinyon Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

  • Change Your Response to Conflict and Change Your Life

    situations and you improve all your relationships. Friends and family will notice the positive change in you. The difficult people in your life will suddenly seem less difficult. John Kinyon and Ike Lasater spent a decade refining their Mediate Your Life process, which unites highly evolved conflict resolution techniques with emerging science around habit formation and the human stress response....

  • Mediate Your Life

    having a positive conversation with them. Keywords: feelings observation requests self empathy compassion healing personal growth self compassion mediation renewal and vitality Ike Lasater John Kinyon Mediate Your Life

  • Consciousness, NVC, and Navigating Inner and Outer Conflicts

    empathy feelings jackal show presence self empathy compassion conflict resolution mediation relationships jackal talk self connection authenticity vulnerability enemy images intensity triggers John Kinyon

  • Transforming Anger

    to conscious presence and connection with self and others when triggered into a reaction. This ability is based in learnable skills and may also be key to our survival as human beings. Join John Kinyon to learn this essential life skill through the Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral. {attachment:all} Keywords: demands empathy feelings jackal show needs presence requests self empathy...

  • Expressing and Receiving No in NVC Consciousness

    Keywords: demands empathy feelings needs presence requests self empathy compassion self compassion conflict resolution relationships authenticity vulnerability enemy images intensity triggers John Kinyon

  • Valuing My Needs When I Habitually Don't

    needs awareness, mourning and mindfulness. Keywords: mourning needs requests self empathy strategies connection self compassion self connection mindfulness safety universal human needs John Kinyon

  • Inner Maps of Conflict

    In this brief audio segment, John Kinyon offers a guided tour of our inner maps of conflict, including interpersonal mediation, chooser/educator, enemy images and making amends maps. Keywords: empathy feelings jackal show mourning observation presence self empathy compassion healing self compassion conflict resolution mediation celebration authenticity vulnerability enemy images intensity...

  • Introduction to NVC Mediation

    This Introduction to NVC Mediation provides a conceptual overview and experiential taste of the NVC mediation learning model developed by John Kinyon and Ike Lasater. NVC mediation can be applied to conflict in all types of situations — from organizational and community to personal relationships, and in four mediation contexts – internal, interpersonal, informal, and formal – as well as pre-...

  • Reconciliation & Healing

    Marshall Rosenberg, over the course of decades of work with people around the world who have experienced the deep pain of violence, developed a 4-part model of reconciliation and healing. John Kinyon has worked closely with Marshall over many years and has learned this process from him and applied it to working with people in deep interpersonal pain. In this telecourse recording John will...

  • Foundational NVC Skills

    are two requests that are the most transformative to relationships, (1) What’s alive in both of us? and (2) What would make life more wonderful for both of us? This telecourse recording, with John Kinyon, offers an easy-to-digest overview of how carefully crafted requests inspire joyful relationships. Specifically, this telecourse recording explores the following aspects of requests: Requests...

  • Observation: Awareness of Thought, Story & Core Belief to Enhance Connection

    In this recorded telecourse, John Kinyon, world renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, guides you through processes to strengthen your capacity for mindful presence and awareness of your thinking, and to develop the skills to translate thoughts into observations. You will learn to: Strengthen your ability to find peace and centeredness within you, regardless of what’s happening around you More...

  • Use of “To Be” Verbs

    on the pure, life-serving/enriching quality itself. I try to get people to fully do this before moving to requests; i.e., specific ways one would like to get a need met. Hope this is helpful, —John Kinyon Keywords: consciousness needs strategies personal growth naturalizing NVC John Kinyon


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