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Transformative Dialogue

The less blame and criticism, the easier it is for others to hear us. From this perspective, it’s in our best interest to come from curiosity and care. This way differences can bring us together and help us know one another. The more mutual understanding, the easier it is to work together and find creative solutions. Read on for more on this, with a story about how a black man inspired 200...
Evaluations vs. Feelings

but you express a thought instead. This trainer tip is an excerpt from Mary Mackenzie's book, Peaceful Living, available from PuddleDancer Press. Keywords: evaluation feelings faux feelings blame Mary Mackenzie
Miki Kashtan And Inbal Kashtan’s Additional NVC Key Differentiations

support of understanding and learning. Read this article Keywords: differentiation distinction meeting needs self care selfish understanding agreement care altruism self compassion responsibility blame self reliance self sufficiency safety applying NVC teaching NVC feedback change submit entrust rebel choice reaction response reactivity Inbal Kashtan Miki Kashtan
Focusing On What You Want

when you focus on what you don’t want today, and shift to what you do want. This trainer tip is an excerpt from Mary Mackenzie's book, Peaceful Living, available from PuddleDancer Press. Keywords: blame conflict judgement Mary Mackenzie
Expressing Big Emotions Compassionately

in giraffe rather than blaming the other person. This trainer tip is an excerpt from Mary Mackenzie's book, Peaceful Living, available from PuddleDancer Press. Keywords: anger frustration conflict blame expression Mary Mackenzie
Effectiveness of the NVC Process in Coping with Violence and Pain

much violence has occurred and people's pain is very deep? —M.T., Bosnia Trainer Answer Dear M.T., Listen to the Audio above for the complete trainer answer. —Liv Larsson, Sweden Keywords: anger blame connection families leadership relationships social change teaching NVC coping strategy violence pain Liv Larsson
What Are Enemy Images?

image. If you struggle with judgments of others or yourself and you’d like relief from this pattern, this interview is well worth six minutes of your time! Keywords: enemy images presence anger blame judgment personal growth self talk relationships Liv Larsson
Observation: Awareness of Thought, Story & Core Belief to Enhance Connection

communicate what happened in ways that don’t stimulate defensiveness in others Increase your ability to translate thinking/judgments into underlying needs Keywords: core beliefs observation blame compassion connection judgment John Kinyon
Witnessing Humanity

Discern when to respond verbally or to rely on non-verbal presence Deepen your empathy skills for increased effectiveness in being with others {attachment:all} Keywords: empathy feelings presence blame compassion connection dialogue healing judgment listening self compassion conflict resolution active listening partnership Arnina Kashtan
A Strong Man

aid of a little girl when she needs protecting. But can he protect her from the harsh words she speaks to herself inside her head? Keywords: storytelling expression feelings honesty observation blame connection healing inspiration judgment relationships fun Leo Sofer