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What is Mine to Do?

asking, "What is mine to do?", and honors the dissonance we feel when working to change. This recording is from session 32 of Miki's 2020 program Responding to the Call of Our Times. Keywords: Miki Kashtan social change environment family vision purpose
Making NVC Relevant to a World in Crisis

when we have more power in a particular situation? How do we learn to offer feedback about impact without implying intention when we have less power in a particular situation? Keywords: Miki Kashtan feedback empathy requests feelings needs observation mourning celebration vulnerability sharing NVC
Convergent Facilitation

of their underlying principles, needs, aspirations, and dreams, not at the level of their surface positions. Convergent Facilitation is a highly efficient decision-making process developed by Miki Kashtan from the principles of Nonviolent Communication. It enables you to look beneath the surface and find the essence of what’s important to different stakeholders, and bring it together into one...
It's Not Just Me

– that individual suffering and challenges often have their source in the social systems within which we live. How can we mobilize this insight in support of our own and others' healing? Join Miki Kashtan for this course designed to shed light on how the social context into which we are born affects our experience, and what we can do about it at the individual level within the paradigm of...
Nonviolent Facilitation as a Path to the Future

and even to you, while caring for the whole group, still? CONFLICT: How to attend to what is happening in a given moment without compromising the purpose for which the group is there? Keywords: Miki Kashtan facilitation conflict power privilege purpose nonviolence
Reducing the Gap in Capacity Range

Each of us has a range of capacities. Miki Kashtan describes this as a range from "floor to ceiling." Floor capacity is what happens when you hit your limitation, ceiling capacity is when you are closest to functioning in line with your values and vision. This video describes the need to work on both to prevent the gap from expanding. Keywords: Miki Kashtan capacity vision values limits
Beyond the Limits of Empathy

to live to see that day. Keywords: empathy Milgram experiments Nazi shame fear duty violence oppression suppression obedience punishment children parenting social change military David Brooks Miki Kashtan
Uncertainty, Human Limitations, and Acceptance

or I can join the ride, with the mourning and the laughter, the pain and the joy. Keywords: mourning uncertainty acceptance blame limitation helplessness should control reactivity gratitude Miki Kashtan
Navigating Uncertainty

of high stakes and uncertainty, such as dealing with a health crisis, the challenge is to resist the urge to speculate on countless possibilities and instead concentrate on the facts at hand. Miki Kashtan shares how staying in the present and acting on what is currently known provided a practical and grounded approach which allowed her to stay present throughout her sister's, Inbal Kashtan,...
From What's Fair to What's Possible

So many of us have been taught to solve conflicts by what is “fair.” However, Miki Kashtan states that fairness is a separating concept. In this video, she describes how when we do not have the conditions to care for all needs involved, when we live within separation, fairness is second best. Keywords: Miki Kashtan capacity limits fairness needs support agreements
Why Patriarchy Is Not about Men

commitment to undo socialization, act within our sphere of influence, and work towards the liberation of all. Read this article Keywords: patriarchy system nonviolence oppression socialization Miki Kashtan
Blurring the Distinction between Public and Private Spheres

Read this article Keywords: interdependence society norms capitalism stratification economy children family patriarchy school working from home oppression community commons industrialization Miki Kashtan
The Radical Implications of Staying Within Capacity

to Lore Baur narrate this article above. Click here to read this article Keywords: capacity limits oppression patriarchy society agreement gift economy generosity extinction force burnout Miki Kashtan
Myths Of Power With

with love and care remains an open question for me. Keywords: power with inclusion power over social change activism equality NVC myth power capacity limit boundaries group Mary Parker Follett Miki Kashtan
#MeToo And Liberation For All

article Keywords: #metoo power feminism liberation harrassment violence assault rape punish justice patriarchy men consent coercion sexism restorative justice society systemic social change Miki Kashtan
Empathy And Privilege In An Interdependent World

and choice. Here, its important to transform expectations into working with willingness, and within our own terms and timetable. Read this article Keywords: empathy privilege power choice Miki Kashtan
The Challenge Of Connecting Dots

with approaches rooted in this separation. Read this article Keywords: power privilege Walmart wealth empathy social change interdependence separation poverty sustainability abundance Walton Miki Kashtan
Liberation For All

co-hold dilemmas about privilege; co-shape outcomes; etc. Read this article Keywords: power privilege liberation honest expression dialogue conflict oppression defensiveness confrontation Miki Kashtan
Increase Your Capacity and Diminish Separation Habits

needs. Through intensive lifelong practices we learn to increase our capacity to receive and to increase our capacity to be generous supports our overall capacity to hold all needs. Keywords: Miki Kashtan needs impact integration integrating NVC
You Are Not A Bad Person

be helpful we need to engage with necessary (rather than unnecessary) discomfort. Read this article Keywords: privilege liberation racism power antiracism society socialization marginalization Miki Kashtan